Friday, November 24, 2006

The Season of Brotherly Shove

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. – John 1:1-2

It’s the reason for the season, isn’t it: getting the best deal on presents to stuff under the tree? And at what cost? What’s the latest fad to hit the streets in time for Christmas this year? How can I let my son go even one more month without one? What kind of father would I be? And especially at such an amazingly low price!

Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. In him was life, and that life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, but the darkness has not understood it. – John 1:3-5

My wonderful daily commute takes me along the I-80 corridor past the Solano Mall and then down I-680 where I pass the Sun Valley Mall and a host of fine retail outlets. On a normal day, as I pass by these stores at 5:00 AM, the parking lots are deserted. Only a street sweeper might be spotted making laps around the asphalt.

There came a man who was sent from God; his name was John. He came as a witness to testify concerning that light, so that through him all men might believe. He himself was not the light; he came only as a witness to the light. The true light that gives light to every man was coming into the world. – John 1:6-9

But not today: not on the day after Thanksgiving. This morning, parking lots were jam packed with cars and people. This morning, people actually alit from their warm comfortable beds…to go shopping! At five in the morning! Some of them camped there all night. What did they give thanks for yesterday?

He was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him. Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God— children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband's will, but born of God. – John 1:10-13

I don’t know why it amazes me. It happens every year. Tonight on the news, we’ll be treated to store security camera footage of otherwise normal men and women - seemingly decent human beings - trampling over each other, ripping items from each other’s hands, and pushing each other out of the way to grab that one last "thing" they just have to have for Christmas. The scene from our church Christmas play last year would not have been so funny were it not so grounded in reality. If we’re lucky, nobody will get shot. If we’re lucky…

The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the One and Only, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth. – John 1:14

Oh, that’s right…it’s Christmas. It’s the time we celebrate the birth of Christ. It’s the time we set aside to honor our Lord and Savior, the One who died on the cross so that we might live. He brought us grace, truth, and love. And He paid for it at the cross.

From what deprived materialistic state of mind did we create the day we proudly refer to as Black Friday? Yes, there were Christians in the crowds this morning. Materialism isn’t lost on us. I guess that’s what makes it sadder in my mind.

When the boxes are opened Christmas morning, and elation turns to disappointment, will it have been worth it? When we discover the electronic Tomagachi Pet we just had to have is as boring as watching the grass grow, will we be proud of ourselves?

Only 32 days until the after Christmas sales begin. Am I the Grinch Who Stole Christmas, or what?


Surely, our Lord wept at the spectacle we made of ourselves today.

10 comments:

Wealthedge said...

I'd like to add a dissenting voice to the cries of “Unholy!” and “Heathen!” and “You make God sick!”

I agree that the whole “Black Friday” thing is an emotional greed-driven spectacle.

But I would also suggest that it’s been around for as long as people have been around.

It’s basic supply and demand.

When there is little to be had, and lots of people to have it, then that creates a frenzy.

Sellers know this, and they exploit it.

Is that wrong? Maybe.

My question would be: what’s the alternative?

Retailers make their entire bottom line on the 6 weeks between Thanksgiving and Christmas. They are in the red for 46 weeks, and in the black in the last 6.

If it wasn’t for the frenzy, they would go under. The people they employ would lose their jobs. They wouldn’t be able to afford a house.

A house on which they would have purchased an Old Republic home warranty and would have paid someone I know whose name starts with an L and ends with an aurence his wage.

People who invested in the stock of the company would lose their money. Foreign competitors would gain an upper hand and be a stronger force in the world.

America’s dominance would be undermined.

Economics is a strange eclectic thing.

We are a dominant force in the world in part because we are the richest country in the world.

Blessings from God? I think so. Some might not, but I do.

And the reason we are so economically powerful is because of the frenzy.

So do I agree with the foaming-at-the-mouth rabid sleep-in-a-tent-all-night-for-the-$299-laptop ideal? Nah.

But I also don’t have a better alternative.

If you do, then lay it on me.

Dale

Laurence said...

Maybe I didn't articulate it well enough, but this wasn't an indictment of American business. I'm entrenched enough in business to understand supply and demand.

I will point out that Black Friday has more to do with supply side economics than supply and demand. Suppliers drive the demand by withholding products until the demand is greatest or make outrageous deals on a few items to get people into the store for things they don't really want or need. But that's not my point either.

Regardless of the economics, I don't think God is pleased with the way we behave at Christmas.

How much do we love our children? $250 worth of Christmas presents? $500? $1,000? How many families will find themselves bankrupt after the Christmas season when the credit card bills come due?

Christmas has become the time of year when seemingly normal people do abnormal things. Depression, divorce, and incidents of violence and suicide all increase during this frenzied time of year.

Don't hear me wrong. I'm not pointing the finger at anyone. I'm as guilty as the next person when it comes to Christmas shopping and getting caught up in the hype.

I'm wondering out loud if there's a way we could step out of this vicious cycle we go through and find a way that truly honors Christ. After all, it is His day we're supposed to be celebrating.

Michelle said...

I've seen lots of families break away and do great things for Christmas, and that is their tradition. The one I like best is a coworker that sponsors a needy family. A couple of weeks before Christmas they get acquainted with the family, learns their needs and dreams. They get them a tree and gifts and the meal. On Christmas day they deliver all the stuff to the family. When they are done, they get in the car and drive to Disneyland or Tahoe to just be together.

I love that they are getting to know and help others, and then just relishing in time spent together.

Wealthedge said...

Michelle,

I’ve heard of things like that and so want to do that too, but I’ve always found it difficult to find someone truly needy and someone that will appreciate the gesture. The times we’ve tried to do that, we’ve been rebuffed or looked on suspiciously. Maybe someone can find a reputable source that can supply us with qualified candidates for that sort of thing. I would LOVE that.

Laurence,

I understand where you are coming from. I agree on a certain level.

I guess I’m just not seeing how God is more disappointed with us during Christmas time than he is the other 46 weeks of the year.

You say it’s His day? As opposed to the other 364 1/4 days a year?

Everyday is God’s day.

I mean, Christmas is how old? I’m not sure, but I know it’s a mishmash of a bunch of pagan Roman gods and rituals.

People have been screwing up God’s will for longer than Christmas has been around.

And I know that people think that Christmas is a celebration of the birth of Jesus. I get that the whole world looks to the sky in honor on that day.

I would suggest that you and I and the people I choose to worship with do that for the majority of the year. We don’t need Christmas to remember to love God and love our neighbor. To be thankful and in awe of our Savior.

If we are anointed and sanctified and set apart, then Christmas is just another day.

My mom and I go rounds about that. She’s very anti-Halloween. No candy, no costumes, etc.

My point is this: Halloween isn’t a celebration of druidic pagan ritual anymore than Christmas is some special holy set apart day of worship.

They are both a product of Hallmark and Coca Cola.

They want to sell cards and gifts and candy. And wrapping paper and gas and trees and marshmallows, etc.

Christmas is just another Monday as far as God is concerned. How do I know? Because I don’t see in the Bible where it says to watch the Charlie Brown Christmas Special.

Hezekiah 3:14 “Thou shalt watch the Charlie Brown Christmas Special no less than three times, not four, not two, but the number shall be three. Not five, nay, not six, neither one nor eight. The number shall be three, for God looks favorably upon CBS and Charles Schultz, and it was credited to them as righteousness.”

So, maybe what I am saying is that the “brotherly shove” isn’t any worse at Christmas than it is at a Raider game, or at a car lot, or at church when there’s barbeque ..

So the brotherly shove is bad, yeah, I’m with you.

Just not especially so during Christmas.

Dale

Laurence said...

Michelle: I love the way you think. Not only is something like that honoring to Christ, but what a fantastic lesson for our kids! God has blessed us. We should constantly look for ways to bless others with what He has provided.

Dale: I'm hearin' ya, brother. You always bring a strong discussion that helps me think. I can't say I'm down with eliminating Christmas or Halloween or any other holiday either.

I am down with beginning an introspective look at how I handle those occassions. Man, I just want to make sure I'm right with the One I need to be right with.

Look at what the Crocketts (and Jack Sparrow, his wench, Elvis, Raggedy Ann, and others) pulled off at their place on Halloween. That was a fantastic vehicle to reach out to others.

In our daily lives, to be sure, we need to be honoring to Christ. There's just something special about the holidays that makes me feel like we should step up the effort another notch.

It's the perfect opportunity to introduce Christ into the lives of some who might not know Him.

Yeah, I agree, Christmas is really just another day if we've already been anointed, sanctified, and set apart. But, because of the hype surrounding it, am I missing an opportunity to witness?

Susie said...

And to think my only comment was going to be:

"Can anyone say Commando Shopping?"

Whew, I'm sure glad I didn't go there and waited instead for what others would have to say!

:>)

Wealthedge said...

Don't call me 'sir' -- I work for a living! :)

Just to clarify: I'm not suggesting we eliminate Christmas or Halloween or any other holiday (maybe Flag Day.)

Heaven forbid we take away a day off for the banks and the government. :)

I am suggesting that our consciousness of God and our awareness of Him isn’t heightened at Christmas (or shouldn’t be). We should have our God antennae up all the time.

And to buy into the spiritual hype and pseudo-holiness of the season trivializes the real message.

Christmas is a cardboard cutout of Jesus. It’s not the empty tomb; it’s a baby in a manger. It’s the whole idea of CEO Christians (Christmas and Easter Only.)

Will you have an opportunity to witness around the holidays that you normally wouldn’t have? I’m not sure. Probably.

Is that the only time we witness? Is that the only time people will tolerate our ‘blather’?

To put the kind of spiritual metaphysical dogma on Christmas that you are suggesting means that we need to get really ticked off when they talk about Holiday Trees and Winter Festivals.

“They took the Christ out of Christmas!!!!”

I guess my answer is: so what? Is there something special about Christmas that I’m missing?

As far as I know, the tomb is still empty. Jesus is still alive and well.

To make a fuss about the commercialization of Christmas means that there is something more to Christmas than just peanut butter chocolate drop cookies .. (aaahhhhhhhhh I can’t wait .. )

You say, “There's just something special about the holidays that makes me feel like we should step up the effort another notch.”

And I would respond by saying that I don’t believe that anything is spiritually different. I don’t believe the heavens are different during Christmas.

Are we? Yeah, I think so. Is God? Nah.

So we may be able to witness when people are open to it.

But, the flipside may be true as well. If people are ready for it, and they have their copy of Richard Dawkins “God Delusion” tucked under their arm, maybe the witness will fall flat, because Christmas is such a shadow of the real Jesus.

Maybe Jesus has gotten a bad rap by being lumped in with the jolly fat man.

I don’t know. Christmas seems more and more perverted. Less and less about anything true. Anything real.

What do I know? I just want some of my wife’s snicker doodles and peanut butter chocolate drop cookies.

Dale

Michelle said...

Here are some places to contact if you want to consider adopting a family for Christmas:

The Family Resource Center. They counsel low income, battered women/children, and recovering families. The number is 469-6608.

Opportunity House (homeless shelter for women/children) 447-1988.

Senior Santa/Holiday Connection Vacaville (sponsors holiday for shut-in elderly): Audrey Calder 469-6673

and since you have a heart for the Vets, Kelli Germeraad at vetsfrst@aol.com could probably help find Vets in need of some support.

Have a great Christmas - every day of the year!

Laurence said...

Michelle: I love it, "Have a great Christmas - every day of the year!" That means I get to stuff myself on ham, turkey, dressing, and pie all year long! I'm down with that!

And Dale: Who you callin' jolly fat man? So I've put on a couple of pounds!

I love all your input. Lots of things to consider.

Wealthedge said...

We should get three or four familes for the Rebels to sponsor as a group ..

Like an UnBlu'd outreach ..

Something to consider ..

Dale